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In 1996, I became acquainted with L’Arche Daybreak, a group of severely intellectually disabled residents and caregivers who live in community in Toronto. Fr. Henri Nouwen, a beloved, world-renowned theologian and writer, served as their pastor.

A month before I left to visit the community, Henri suddenly died. The world was stunned by his early death at 64, and his community was heartbroken. Their beloved pastor had died, and they were stricken with sadness.

I decided to visit the community anyway and witnessed a remarkable expression of grief. Several times at a meal or during Eucharist, one or more of the residents would call out, “Henri’s dead. Remember to pray for Henri.”

Initially this level of expressed grief unnerved me. Then it occurred to me: I was observing a pure, profound form of mourning. They could not act as if they were not grieving. There was no filter to make sure their guests were comfortable. What a gift to have witnessed this much love and sadness being expressed without restraint.

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Getting Grief Right


by Dr. Patrick O'Malley

A masterpiece that will touch your heart and soul with healing powers. • A compassionate, wise, and practical guide • A must read for anyone who is grieving the loss of a loved one.

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DR. PATRICK O’MALLEY
Grief Therapist


Dr. Patrick O’Malley is a psychotherapist in Fort Worth, Texas, who specializes in grief counseling. For 40 years, he has counseled individuals, couples and families
in his private practice.

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Getting Grief Right


by Dr. Patrick O'Malley

By the time Mary came to see me, six months after losing her daughter to sudden infant death syndrome, she had hired and fired two other therapists. She was trying to get her grief right...
 

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