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Sitting With

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A grief counselor in my town tells about a conversation he had with a taxi driver. Making conversation, the cab driver asked why he was in town. The counselor said, “I am here to teach the staff at a hospital how to be helpful someone who has experienced the death of a loved one.” The cabbie looked confused for a moment. But then he said, “I understand. You are going to teach them how to sit with.”

Now it was the professional who was confused. He asked, “What do you mean ‘sit with?’” The driver responded: “Well, when we have a death in our community, we always make sure we have someone there at the house to sit with the person who is sad.”

How simple and beautiful. I am no stranger to being with those who have a deep loss in their life. As a psychotherapist, I clearly know my role as helper. As a friend, I have the same anxiety most folks have on the way to the house of the mourner: “What will I say?” And then I remember this story. Just sit with.

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Getting Grief Right

by Dr. Patrick O'Malley

A masterpiece that will touch your heart and soul with healing powers. • A compassionate, wise, and practical guide • A must read for anyone who is grieving the loss of a loved one.


Grief Therapist

Dr. Patrick O’Malley is a psychotherapist in Fort Worth, Texas, who specializes in grief counseling. For 40 years, he has counseled individuals, couples and families
in his private practice.


Getting Grief Right

by Dr. Patrick O'Malley

By the time Mary came to see me, six months after losing her daughter to sudden infant death syndrome, she had hired and fired two other therapists. She was trying to get her grief right...

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